ETA: Several people have asked online for a status update. As of today (8/8) Effie STILL needs a home, so please keep sharing her story to help her find one!
As many of you know, I have two dogs, Gypsy and Loki. Gypsy is 15 and a half, so not unexpectedly, her health has declined. The decline has been most significant this year, when she lost most of her ability to see and hear, plus she is unstable on her feet due to hip issues, arthritis (yes, we’re doing all the treatments) and other old-age related issues. Because of all this, Gypsy can no longer play with Loki, who is half her age and still has a lot of energy. So, we looked into getting another dog. Our local Humane Society has a program where you can do a “sleepover” with a dog you’re considering adopting, so we did that Saturday night with a very sweet dog named Effie.
Effie was SUCH a good girl. So sweet, gentle, obedient, and loving. Effie was shy when I met her in the shelter’s “bonding” room, but when she got to my house, she relaxed and wanted to snuggle, play with toys, or just sit near me. My dog Loki, however, reacted to Effie with what could only be called psychotic rage. Seriously, Cujo on cocaine would’ve been more chill. Loki repeatedly tried to attack Effie, and yes, I’m familiar with the difference between rough playing and attacking. This wasn’t playing. This was vicious, and so unexpected. Loki has been around other dogs before and had never acted this way. It reminded me of when my Mom’s normally-kind dog got violently protective of her after her health failed. Perhaps Loki thought he had to protect Gypsy in her frail health, or perhaps he just lost his furry shit.
I don’t know, but nothing my husband or I did could dissuade Loki, and normally, a mere stern look would send Loki into tail-down repentance. But despite employing several different methods for hours, Loki kept going berserk. This scared poor Effie, as you can imagine. It also stressed Gypsy out to the point that we knew her health couldn’t take this long-term. That is why we knew keeping Effie wouldn’t be an option.
I slept out on the couch with Effie while hubby had Loki and Gypsy in the bedroom. Even after her frightening day going to a strange house where a crazed dog kept trying to attack her, Effie was SO sweet, calm, and loving. Her tail would thump with happiness every time I looked over at her, and when I pet her, she would close her eyes and give me one of those heart-warming doggie smiles. She slept with her head on my foot, and didn’t once bark or act restless even though she was in unfamiliar surroundings. If I didn’t know that it would kill Gypsy to go through the time and training it would take to correct Loki’s inexplicably vicious reaction, I wouldn’t be typing this post because I’d be keeping Effie. But, we can’t risk Gypsy’s health with added stress when we probably won’t have her much longer anyway.
So, I gave Effie back to the shelter the next morning. She cried when I handed her over to the attendant, and I burst into the kind of tears you never want to shed in public because blubbering like that in front of people is embarrassing.
Over only one night? some of you might be thinking. Hey, I get the skepticism, but the protective shell I have that keeps people at emotional arms-length is absolutely missing when it comes to dogs. Especially dogs like Effie, who are so sweet, loving and eager to have a family that she would’ve been happy to put up with my home, even with its crazed canine occupant. That is why, as the subject line says, Effie needs a home.
Effie is five years old and weighs forty-seven pounds. She’s a mixed breed, so while her face looks a little Pitt-y, her body looks like a cross between a (smaller) Gray hound and a Shepard. She has short brown hair with subtle, brindle-like markings and brown eyes. She knew basic commands like sit, stay, paw, come, and she was potty-trained. I’ve sponsored her adoption fees, so there’s no cost to adopt her beyond the filing fees for her rabies tag, and yes, she’s up to date on all her shots. Effie is at the Jacksonville Humane Society in Jacksonville, Florida (full link: https://www.jaxhumane.org/) and she’s ready with unconditional love for anyone who wants a new furry family member. If that’s not you, please consider sharing this post because it might be someone you know. Here are some pics I took of Effie:
Effie snuggling on the couch with a toy.
Effie waiting patiently while I made dinner.
Effie at the shelter in the “bonding” room.
Gina Hansen says
I’m so sorry you had to go through this. The same thing happened to me once upon a time. I didn’t burst into tears at the rescue, I cried all the way there, the entire time I tried to explain the situation to the concerned staff person, and then all the way home. And I’m a person that according to my parents “never cries”.
But you are doing the right thing. I was assured by many, after my experience, that these things can go very wrong, even with the proper training and doggie behavior therapists. You just have to have faith that Effie will end up in the place she needs to be.
Roseann says
Hi Jeaniene,
Sending you a BIG HUG. I am the same with dogs and cats. My husband and I found a stray cat in our yard a few years back. It was a bad thunderstorm, so I brought her inside and gave her something to eat and drink. Bonding was instant. But it wasn’t a good time for us to have a pet. And on top of that, hubby is allergic to both dogs and cats. Plus I could tell by looking at her that she was pregnant. I took her to the local shelter, spent some time there, in tears, and cried all the way home.
So after reading this (yep, I was in tears by the time I got to the end), I want to send a hug your way and say I hope Effie finds a good home.
Will the shelter let you know when she’s adopted?
Another big hug.
Claire M says
Oh my goodness she’s beautiful!!
“Just one night” dude. That is MORE than enough reason to be upset. Animals get past all those barriers for a reason. There was a reason you picked her in the first place.
I’m so sorry it hasn’t worked out for you and Effie but it’s amazing for you to help get her a new home where she can be happy.
Wishing you lots of love with Gypsy in her remaining time, and that Loki copes too.
Rachina says
What a sweet dog! Please keep us updated on when she gets adopted! Will share the post with friends in Florida too!
Melissa B says
Sorry it did not work out. She looks adorable and I love her eyes. Keep us posted on her adoption status.
Kat Valentine says
So! Happy I read the latest post first and that this guy baby has a happy ending!! Still cried anyway! Much love!😉💋💖
Kat Valentine says
Sorry fur baby not guy baby! F##king auto correct!😉